New Teeth for a New Life: Helping "The Lost Boys" of Sudan
Early Monday morning four friends journeyed from southern Virginia
to Dr. Gaskin’s office in Moyock, North Carolina. But his day trip
was nothing like the journey’s they had endured together already
in their relatively short lives. Abraham, David, James and Samuel are
4 of the 3,800 “Lost Boys of Sudan” that came to USA in 2001.
Fitting in here is a lot different than in Africa
In Sudan tribal groups distinguish themselves in a variety of ways. The
Dinka people pull out 5 or 6 bottom teeth as soon as a child’s adult
set comes in. Abraham, David, James and Samuel are from the Dinka tribe
– they are each missing their front six bottom teeth. They remember
that boys weren’t men if they cried during the tooth pulling ceremony.
But now they are in a different culture. It is difficult for them to eat
American food without their bottom teeth. The gap also makes it hard for
them to speak English understandably.
We recently discovered their need and realized they needed new teeth
to succeed in their new life here. With some research, persistence and
the help of caring dentists we were able to get each boy a set of partial
dentures specially designed for them!
Monday morning each boy had an impression made of their lower and upper
teeth. While we took them to lunch, Dr. Gaskin’s office made a partial
set of dentures for each. In the afternoon, the guys went back for their
fitting. When they looked in the mirror is was hard for them to believe!
Samuel said, “I really thank God. I want to thank you Operation
Blessing. I’m really happy. It’s wonderful.”
Young Wanderers
All four stand at least 6’ tall. The determination and grace with
which they carry themselves belies the hardship they have endured. But
their eyes tell of a horrific journey that began in the late 1980’s.
Abraham, David, James and Samuel fled, with about 12,000 other young
boys, from a 40-year civil war that tore at the seams of Africa’s
largest country. Many saw family members killed and sisters kidnapped.
A few, like Abraham, escaped with their entire family. All walked hundreds
of miles to reach safety in Ethiopia. Abraham met James and his brother
there.
Samuel and his two brothers were also in the exodus. He remembers leaving
his hometown of Rumbek and living in Ethiopia from 1987-1991. Less than
10 years old, David recalls riding on the shoulders of a distant cousin
when he was too tired to take one more step.
Their refuge in Ethiopia was short-lived. The youngsters had to flee
again when civil war broke out in Ethiopia too. Still unwelcome in Sudan,
they trekked to Kenya; facing dangerous terrain, wild animal attacks,
starvation and little water. Those who survived existed in a refugee camp
for another 7 to 8 years.
A
Promising Life
In 2001, the U.N. refugee agency and the U.S. State Department invited
3,800 of the boys to resettle in the United States! Upon their arrival,
the lost boys were taught basics like how to get a job, work a light switch,
take out the garbage, and rent an apartment.
Now two-and-a-half years later and in their late early twenties, Abraham,
David, James and Samuel all are working hard to build a new life for themselves.
They have jobs painting houses, working at a mattress factory and hospital
cafeteria as well as doing plumbing. They are bright young men who speak
4 languages: their tribal dialect, Arabic, Swahili and English. Abraham,
David and Samuel attend college. Abraham’s dream is to become a
teacher.
Even though these young men have newfound peace and opportunity, some
of their family remains in Kenya or has resettled in Sudan since the cease-fire
agreement in 2002-2003. James’ brother is one. It’s hard for
James to call his brother in Kenya when he can’t tell him there
is money coming in the mail for him. So he works hard to support the family
left behind. Devoted to succeeding James shares, “You can’t
plow with one hand. You have to overcome your circumstances.”
Three more of the “Lost Boys” will also receive partial dentures
within the next few weeks. And it’s caring and faithful people like
you that help make it possible!
Every day we find people like Abraham, James, Samuel and David who desperately
need a caring hand to bring healing into their lives. Please join us –
many more are waiting!
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